For a Farewell

Eulogy Helper

For the one who will stand up and speak about someone they love.

Being asked to speak is an honor, and it can feel like a lot. You don’t need to tell their whole life. A good eulogy says who they were, tells a few true stories, names what they gave you, and says goodbye. Answer the prompts below, and the helper lays your words into that simple shape, with a reading time, so you can make it your own.

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Who They Were

Their nameThe name you’ll call them in the room. Words for themUsed in the outline. Who you are to themOne line to open with, so everyone knows who is speaking. Who they were, in one sentenceIf you had only one sentence. It can be funny, plain, or both.

Three Stories

Small and true is better than big and general. A story that shows who they were does more than a list of good qualities. One honest, human detail helps people recognize them.

Story OneA story that makes you smile or laugh. Story TwoA time they showed up for someone, or a habit everyone knew. Story ThreeA moment between the two of you, or something they always said.

What They Gave Us

What they taught youA lesson, a way of doing things, a way of loving people. What we carry forwardWhat the people in this room will keep doing because of them. A closing lineA goodbye, a thank you, a line they loved, or what you want to say to them now.

Speaking Through Tears

Tears are welcome. They mean you loved them, and the room is with you.

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Would you like someone to listen to a draft, or to stand beside you while you speak? Grow With Grounded offers guidance and support for families. Get in touch.

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